Teleshia Delmar

The Wives Confidante




Are you ready to put yourself and your marriage first?

To register, submit your info below and you’ll be all set.

A Love Letter


Dear Wifey,

I know you love being a wife.

And I’m sure you’re doing your best to keep it all together.

But the reality is that you're being pulled in so many different directions!

While you love your children dearly, your role as a mom has consumed you.

And your to-do list has taken over your life.

You’re trying to climb the corporate ladder, and your demanding job has created a
real struggle with work/life balance.

And in the midst of all of this, you've noticed that your self-care has fallen short.

You're wearing multiple hats and running around on empty.

And your marriage has taken a backseat.

You’re living with your spouse like you all are roommates.

You’re sharing space, you’re sharing kids, and you’re sharing bills, but your marriage
has lost the passion it once had.

You feel disconnected (maybe even lonely sometimes).

You and your marriage used to be more of a priority.

Now, it’s at the bottom of your to-do list.

I know your struggle.  I lived your this same struggle.

So, take a deep breath!  I am here to help.

Wifey, we have to reprioritize things.

It's time to put yourself and your marriage first!

That's why I want to personally invite you to register for The Best of You!  5-Day Challenge.

I want to help you give your spouse the best of you, not the rest of you!

Hope to see you on the inside.


Here are 10 signs that you’re NOT giving your spouse the best of you:

  • You talk unfiltered when you should tame your tongue, or you withdraw and hold stuff in when you should communicate your feelings.
  • You don’t do enough self-care, so you’re on edge and moody.
  • You hold back and don’t give your spouse what they want because they don’t give you what you want.
  • You have unresolved issues that you can’t move past, and it’s building up resentment.
  • You barely have sex, initiate sex, or you say no to sex a lot.
  • You don’t make enough time for your spouse (because your priority is on the kids or the job).
  • You boss your spouse around.
  • You have transactional talks (about the house, kids, and bills) rather than connecting conversations (that build intimacy).
  • You don’t handle conflict well which contributes to heated arguments or silent treatments.
  • You’re always tired and are not fun to be around.

If you can resonate with any of these statements,
you are not bringing your best self to the marriage.

It’s time to put yourself and your marriage first!

Give Your Spouse the Best of You, Not the Rest of You! 5-Day Challenge

WHO IS THIS Challenge FOR?


If your marriage is past the honeymoon stage, you need this challenge to help you address unresolved issues and fight fair so there are less heated arguments and silent treatments.


If you are feeling disconnected, you need this challenge to help you redefine your role as a wife in a way that helps you build a better connection with your spouse.


If you are a professional woman, you need this challenge to help you make your marriage more of a priority, even though you're busy and trying to climb the corporate ladder.


If you’re struggling with balance, you need this challenge to help you create boundaries in your work life and your home life, so you’re not pulled in every direction and completely exhausted every single day.


If you are living with your spouse like roommates, where you’re sharing space, kids, and bills, because your marriage has lost the passion it once had, you need this challenge to help you spice things up and get things back on track.

Yes Wifey, you need to give your spouse the best of you, not the rest of you!


When is the challenge and how long is it?

The challenge will start on Sunday, May 15th to Thursday, May 19th, 2022. The challenge will run for those 5 consecutive days.

Is this challenge free?

Absolutely, yes. This challenge is provided to you at no cost. So, join in. It’s going to be so much fun (and a complete game-changer for you).

Can I invite my engaged and married girlfriends to this challenge?

Absolutely, yes. The more, the merrier. Please have your engaged or married girlfriends come to this page (LoversBond.com/you) so she can enter her first name and email address in the designated space, and just like that, she’ll be in too. 

And by the way, thank you so much for being a good girlfriend and inviting them along for this ride with us).

What should I expect during this challenge?

You can expect to receive an email each morning (around 5am ET) with your challenge to do for the day. You must plan your day accordingly to allow yourself time to complete the task before you go to bed. The task can be done in 20 minutes or less.

In the evening (around 9pm ET), you can expect me to be live in our private Wives Helping Wives Facebook group where we will be talking about the challenge for the day, why I gave you that challenge, and how it helps you give your spouse the best of you, not the rest of you. 

Note: If you can’t make the live session in the evenings, don’t let that stop you from signing up for the challenge. You can watch the replay of the live trainings at your convenience. 

What if I want to take the next step to work with you?

I would love the opportunity to get to know you on a more personal level so I can further help you elevate your wife life.  Schedule a Wife Impact call with me at loversbond.com/call.

Wife Wins

A.S. Fayetteville, NC

I felt so good after finishing this assignment. I was relaxed and refreshed! Made me realize I need to do better and to improve intimacy with my hubby!! Great assignment might be repeating that weekly!!

K.R., Oakland, Michigan

Yesterday's challenge was so good that I'm doing it again tonight. Today, my husband kept trying to interrupt my work meetings! This week has been great!

N.M. Atlanta, GA

I was going to send a picture, when my baby saw how hot and sexy I was looking, he began to take my clothes off and ladies, you all know the rest!!! Yess, Yessss, and Yessssss. I haven't been in the mood to do anything. This challenge has saved my marriage and life.

M.M. Washington, DC

It gave me the confidence to speak up for myself, and let my voice be heard.

L.N., Omaha, NE

This is fun, informative, and interactive and it gives me something to look forward to this week. Thank you. Just being a part of this challenge has made me feel like a winner! This was an amazing experience. Thank you.

A.M. Houston, TX

I am excited because my husband and I have a date night for Saturday night. It's been a long time.



You will discover the biggest mistakes that keep most wives from living their best wife life.


You will better understand your role as a wife (it’s not just about cooking and cleaning).


You want to get (and keep) your spouse’s attention.


You will discover your wife superpower and how you can use it to have a greater impact!


You want to show up for yourself and your marriage (even if you think your spouse doesn’t show up for you).

After this challenge, you’ll be in a much better position to give your spouse the best of you, not the rest of you!

Here’s a quick outline of the theme for each day of the challenge:

The Clarity.  

Why cooking and cleaning does NOT define you or your role as a wife.

The Courage.  

Using your influence to ask for the support you really need (in a way in which he really hears you this time).

The Confidence.  

(Re)Discover your sexy so you feel good and look good.

The Wife Manifesto. 

Taking care of you so you're in a better position to take care of whatever and whomever else.

Elevate Your Wife Life. 

Stop being a good wife in an okay marriage and start becoming a happy wife in a happy marriage!

Hi Wifey!   

I’m Teleshia, The Wives Confidante

I’ve been a wife for 21 years!

I used to be a good wife in an okay marriage.

Now, I can honestly say that I’ve become a happy wife in a happy marriage.

And I want to help you too!

I work with the professional woman who is past the honeymoon stage, struggling with balance, and living with your spouse like roommates, where you’re sharing space, kids, and bills because the marriage has lost the passion it once had.

My mission is to help you make yourself and your marriage more of a priority, so you can give your spouse the best of you, not the rest of you.

I am a certified life coach, a certified Prepare/Enrich facilitator and a member of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy.

Wifey, let me help you.  

You have so much power residing on the inside of you.  Let’s use The Best of You! 5-Day Challenge to tap into your wife superpower and use it to bring out the best in you and your marriage.

DON’T MISS THIS Opportunity!



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